Cause & Effect

Some simple words of knowledge from Someone to adapt to our daily life.

Knowledge that people close to us are independent and able to take care of themselves is a big load off our minds. Therefore it is a good to start early to cultivate positive habits especially the ability to take care of oneself. Those few words are very short but encompass every aspect of our lives, at work, at home and even in school.

At work it means being able to do your part properly, ability to resolve whatever issues pertaining to work and also the basics like punctuality and attendance.

At home there are also many things to take care of like cleaning the house, ensuring that daily necessities like groceries are stocked and laundry ironed plus many more.

Independent in school means punctuality and attendance, delivering school work on time and understanding what is being taught.

Your loved ones will be at peace when they know that regardless of the obligations you have, whether at work, home or school, that you can “take care” of yourselves. With this knowledge they can better focus on their own obligations knowing that you can manage what you are supposed to do in your own areas.

If you really think about it, this perception tells you that in all relationships whether family, friends, classmates or colleagues, we affect each other either directly or indirectly whether we are consciously doing it or not. Therefore the best approach is letting your loved ones know that you are capable and responsible in what you do, to do this, assurances comes by way of actions, words and results.

Everyone has a role to play and due to the bond we have as family, friends and colleagues we affect each other. In order not to have an avalanche effect all must do their parts and live with the consequences of our actions and what we say or do.

Good Dietary Habits!

Everyone needs energy to face the day’s challenges, no matter how urgent or how busy you are you still need energy to tackle the challenges ahead whether with regards to work, studies or even house work. Therefore it is wise to first fill your stomach which means a good breakfast before you start the day whether at work, school or at home. Without regular and timely meals one can only look forward to a lethargic day, it can also lead to gastric pains.

Someone's personal motto is “ no amount of money is worth the pains that comes with unhealthy eating habits / schedule “. A regular meal time and balanced diet will ensure one’s overall well being but there’s no need to overkill up to the stage such as monitoring the calories you consume. For starters you just need to ensure that your dietary intake consists of vegetables, meat, fruits and also sufficient amount of liquids.

Healthy meats will be lean meat or poultry complimented by greens and fruits like pineapple, papaya and watermelon. The older one gets the less efficient our digestive system therefore these simple choices / eating habits will ensure we stay healthy.

Hey Ka-chng, from today onwards, we better keep good dietary habits, if not, will get reprimanded again!!!

Ups & Downs!!!

In life, we are bound to face obstacles. The cruel thing about life experiences are not all things will go smoothly all the time, there are times when lousy feelings will inevitable come into our life. There will be instances where we will find ourselves in a downhill ride.

The difference is that only when we are able to go through a downhill ride, then we will only able to enjoy the uphill journey. We will be more appreciative and enjoy the uphill ride more because mentally and spiritually we have become stronger and in the right mindset to enjoy the fruits of our labor.

In short, we must try to grow stronger over time, growing more confident and independent as time goes by. We must know how to manage both good and bad feelings, and it’s not good if you only know how to enjoy good things but do not know how to handle bad things. We must learn how to solve/tackle bad situations, and to come out strong and standing.

My gals, I know you will grow stronger with each and every setback or unpleasant situation you go through. I know you will grow into intelligent, diligent and beautiful ladies.

My Birthday!!!

Time is really flying fast, and I am one year older now. That day I was telling my gals, when you are in you 20s and 30s, you will find that time passed very fast, as these are the times you start dating, get married, have children and getting busy with their up-growing and preparing them to step into the world. When you are in your 40s, the pace gets slow, and everyday is similar, no great excitment or changes. Life is getting abit boring sometimes, but I know I will use my time wisely and make full use of it. The celebration and presents are great. Thanks to all of you.

My Soulmate??

Once upon a time we wondered if we were ever going to meet our own soulmate. We ask if the one we are with right now is the one truly meant for us. There are just too many stories about people finding the one? Their match? Their twin soul? That at times it almost feels too magical to believe, yet we keep on believing. Love, indeed, moves in mysterious ways. If you want to know if its possible, it is. You can find your soulmate.

Soulmates are believed to be our love match? The other twin of our soul. If you have episodes of yearning and longing, thats because you haven't met yet the special someone who can fill up your loneliness. If you got fears, he definitely has ways to subside them. He can put an end to your uncertainty; He spells happiness. Soulmates rather complement us than complete us.

The first sign in discerning if HE is the one is when your heart and mind tell you that HE is so. You will know it even if you don't know how. Thats the joy that soulmates bring to everyone.

Knowing each of us has a matched soul is a beautiful thing to think of. The universe is so huge that the journey in finding our soulmates seems like a blanket of overwhelming adventure. The thought seems mysterious but tugs inspiringly at the heartstrings. It makes us want to wake up each day with that burning desire that we might just stumble to them. The scenario can get really delightful, what with a not so perfect world that we have, finding your soulmate in the most strange times is perhaps the most beautiful thing that can happen to any individual.

I love this song by Natasha Bedingfield....

Natasha Bedingfield - Soulmate
Incompatible, it don't matter though
'cos someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
you're not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
is already in my life?
right in front of me
or maybe you're in disguise

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
who knows how to love you without being told
somebody tell me why I'm on my own
if there's a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
how do I find the perfect fit
there's enough for everyone
but I'm still waiting in line

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
who knows how to love you without being told
somebody tell me why I'm on my own
if there's a soulmate for everyone

If there's a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
who knows how to love you without being told
somebody tell me why I'm on my own
if there's a soulmate for everyone

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
who knows how to love you without being told
somebody tell me why I'm on my own
if there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

My Love Profile!

Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is high. You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person. And in return, you expect the same from who you love. Any sign of straying, and you'll end things. Experience Level: Your experience level is high. You've loved, lost, and loved again. You have had a wide range of love experiences. And when the real thing comes along, you know it! Dominance: Your dominance is low. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced. You know a relationship is not about getting your way. And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom. Cynicism: Your cynicism is low. You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance. No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter. You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate. And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon. Independence: Your independence is low. This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships.. It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life. In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together.

The Five Variable Love Test