Feel Happy, and you will be Happy!!!

One of the things that Someone has been telling lately is that life has its ups and downs , we go through different feelings every time, some days we have good moments and some days bad moments... sometimes we are depressed, sad, bored, unhappy,lonely....many negative feelings; and some other times we feel happy, cheerful, optimistic, in love, secured.....many positive feelings.

One of the thing we need to understand is that we have good times cos we live thru the hard times, and we will appreciate the feeling of happiness cos we have been thru the sadness...

So from now on, if we have to go thru some rough patches of our life, we need to remind ourselves "Don Worry, tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, or the next month, we will be having good times cos we will somehow get over this hurdle, and will be happy again".

The cycle of life is sadness will be followed by happiness, so whenever we are facing the hard times, we should be patient and knowing that in the cycle of life, we won't live in sadness forever...Happiness Will Come!

P.S. When we are having good times, take the advantage of it, and enjoy the precious time and good moments, have fun and be happy...

I Am Happy Today!!!

Yes, I am happy today... Feels like floating in the air...
Yes, it may seems too good to be true, but who cares...
And I will enjoy experience while it last!!! The Sun card suggests that my alter ego is the Golden Child, whose superpower for celebration lies in expressing my love, joy and pride. I will be happy today, reflecting on the simple joys in life and my glory days. It's all good! You are in your happy place -- shining brightly for all to see. It may seem too good to be true, but don't worry and enjoy the experience while it lasts.

My Gift is Attraction!!!

My Tarot Reading For Today

The Two of Chalices card suggests that my power today lies in compromise. I am not alone. I offer and accept love, support, and happiness to connect with the pleasure and beauty of my hearts desire. There are two sides to everything and I don't always have to be right. I am empowered by expression and my gift is attraction.

A Learning Process...

Life is a learning process which is ongoing whether we like it or not, whether its going fine for us or going against us. Whichever way it is, there's lessons to be learned, end of the day the difference is whether we can find the strength to pick ourself up n move on...

Someone told me I need to be more confident with this new perception / way of seeing things. Face whatever comes along with this new found view of life and strength, and be more focused and will be able to motivate myself and be strong for my gals...

My Tarot Reading Today

The Nine of Wands card suggests that my power today lies in remarkable gratitude. I am not a victim. There are no lost causes. "I've been there, done that, and know suffering -- but it's all good." I'm still standing. "Can't touch this." Self-pity is an excuse to do nothing. To appeal to sympathy for pity's sake is to seek affirmation of the choice to do nothing. I am empowered by the spirit and support of meaningful experience and I transform with silent resilience.

P.S. How true it is... The important thing is "I'm still standing"...

20.07.2007

2007.2007 Today's date is very special... it can only happens once in a life time... It should be a joyful day... but not for me...

Today is the day I said Goodbye to a 21-year marriage, and a 23-year relationship... Goodbye to the man that I have once loved, and Goodbye to the "Happily Ever After" dream I always think I will have...

Although he has not been in my life for a while now, but when I saw him again today, I feel like turning back and walk out... I don feel like going through the ordeal...It just hurt too much...

Today I really feel very empty... and my heart really feels the pain...From today onwards, I will not have any shoulder to put my head on, and no hand to hold for comfort...No More...

离开了反而好
不是安慰你才这么说
你看不是有很多人分手后
快快乐乐过生活
思念深是折磨
不再忍受那无情冷漠
爱不要茫然无助寻解脱
越挽留就越迷惑
当沉默变得脆弱
只是不停寻找借口犯错
让誓言重复太多
是否你会承受伤心结果

学会离开不愿爱我的人
真心对待的温柔才最深
或许今夜孤单流着泪
明天就有一段美丽相逢
学会离开不愿爱你的人
为心情打开另一扇窗门
爱情或许有着太多疑问
我总会遇见不变的吻

越挽留就越迷惑
思念深是折磨
不再忍受那无情冷漠
爱不要茫然无助寻解脱
越挽留就越迷惑
当沉默变得脆弱
只是不停寻找借口犯错
让誓言重复太多
是否你会承受伤心结果

I Am the Survivor!!!

The Tower card suggests that my alter ego today is the Survivor, whose superpower for revolution lies in my epiphany for change, brought on with the aid of a serious reality check. Today I have reached a turning point. It may be all over but the crying -- but I have the strength to move on and create a better situation for myself. You may say that I never saw it coming or learned the hard way, but with profound change comes new opportunity. One door closes -- another opens. So tear down the wall, and rebuild anew.

Am I really Burned Out?

I am already getting nervous and fret-out for this Friday... I called the lawyer this morning, and she ensure me that there is nothing to worry about. Still, I think at this moment, nobody will understand my feelings... Not even myself...I am too tired to think... The only way now is to immerse myself at work, at least when the brain is busy, no need to think so much...but I am just feeling very tired... !!!

You Are 76% Burned Out

You are very burned out. You need a huge break from your responsibilities, starting as soon as possible. And you need this time to reevaluate what you really want out of your life. Because you're working hard and going no where... and that would burn anyone out!

Are You Burned Out?

A Small Stone or A Big Rock?

Someone was telling me that day, a problem is similar to a stone. A small problem is like a small stone; A big problem is like big stone; and when the stone is too big to carry, you need to break the big stone into smaller stones, so that you can carry within your strength.

Someone went on to say that there are always a 2-sided views in every problem, it depends on which side you wanted to look at it. You can always find a good thing in a bad situation, and you need to find new ways of looking at things. If you are down, and a bad situation comes along, and if do not know how to see the positive side of it, you will get even more lower morale. Everyone of us must need to know how to self motivate, and make ourselves happier and more confident.

I was thinking to myself, my problem now is like a big rock, and it will take alot of energy to break the rock into stones. But I am sure with time, I will be able to do it... See, I am already more confident...

What is Love???

In yesterday's newspapers, a British Council's survey stated that "Love" is the most popular word in Singapore. I was thinking if one knows what is the true meaning of "Love"?

Love is the strong affection for one another, and the unselfish loyal concern. Can we just based on affection and live together forever?

Dajie was telling me over dinner on Wed night, that in the bible, the wife must be submissive to the husband, as he is the head of wife. Will anyone agree with that? Not me..

If the husband does not even show concern for the wife and family, then where does the Love comes from? If the husband does not even respect the wife and children, why must the wife still respect him and submit to him?

I know there are women who thinks that marriage is for life, even when Love has disappeared, I used to be one.. But no more.. I will not be the submissive one.. I need to be strong for my girls and myself.. I will keep all my love for them...
Hey Girls, I LOVE YOU!!!

P.S. - That means I cannot be a Christian, right?

简单人身密码....

Action may not bring you Happiness, But if No Action, you will never find your Happiness!!!

Happiness is Not Doing the things you Enjoy, but Enjoying the things you Do!!!

P.S - Hope my translations make sense!

Looking forward ...

Everyone knows it is not easy to change one's life, especially if you are more than half way thru, like me. But for the sake of my girls and myself, I need to make the changes which will be the best for us, no matter how small or how great the change will be...... You Can Change Your Life, But It Won't Be Easy

You really, truly want to change. You're just not sure that you can do it. You need a solid plan, supportive friends, and a strong will. Think about times you've made hard changes, and what you did to get through them. A change is in your future - you just need a little help getting started.

Can You Change Your Life?

Heng ah... Not the same!!!

You and Your Mom Are Completely Different

At times, it seems like you and your mom aren't even related. You often wonder how two people from the same family can be so different. As the saying goes... you can pick your friends, but not your relatives.

Are You Like Your Mom?